Propose To My Girlfriend

You may have asked the question “How do I know if my girlfriend loves me?” You may think you know, but if you are head over heels in love with her, and you are contemplating proposing to her, you should be to be 100% sure.  So, what can you do if you have any doubts about her true feelings for you?

Well it really depends on the state of your relationship. Here are some questions to ask yourself. Has she told you she loves you? How long have you been dating? How much time do the two of you spend together? Are you joined at the proverbial hip? Do you have the same values and enjoy doing many of the same things together? Do you make her laugh? Answering “yes” to these questions is a good sign that she loves you, but doesn’t mean for sure she does.

If you have reason to think that she may not love you there are some things you can do to find out. If you are the dotting type that is always paying close attention to her, telling her you love her, and buying her flowers, try giving her a bit of space. Don’t come right out and say “I’m going to give you some space.” Just ease off a bit. If you have been going overboard with the show of affection, you may be just piling on too much of a good thing. Spend a bit more time with your friends and pursuing some of your own interest for a while. If she really loves you, this will probably make her take a bit more interest in your relationship.

Here is a definition of love for you to consider:
“When you are more concerned with someone else’s happiness, well-being, future and life than even your own, you’re in love.”

Does this sound like how she feels about you? Do her actions show she feels about you this way? Is she kind and considerate towards you, or does she seem to take you for granted?

Does she cook for you? How about slaving away in a hot kitchen creating your favorite meal?

Does she do nice things for you that are out of her way, difficult, or expensive? She likely wouldn’t put herself through that if she wasn’t in love with you. If you are thinking about asking her to marry you, you should be in a relationship where those kinds of things are a regular occurrence.

You can always ask, but that can seem needy, and you really shouldn’t have to. Besides, her actions speak louder than words anyway. Watch what she does, how she acts, and look at her facial expressions when she looks at you. If you’re sure she does love you and you are ready to propose, look through the archives and other posts here for exactly what to say when you propose to her, ways to propose, how to save money on your engagement ring, and great places to propose. Good luck!

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