Ways to Propose to A Girl – Some More Romantic Ways to Propose
How many ways are there to propose to a girl? Countless ways, but here are a few more you can use. Maybe one of them will spark an idea for the proposal to your special girl.
There are so many ways to propose to a girl. You can be funny, romantic, or outrageous. The fact is that no matter how you propose to a girl, the actual proposal will probably not determine weather or not she says yes. You should know that many women in a recent survey were not terribly satisfied with their proposals, no matter if they said yes or not.
I did a post a few weeks ago on ways to propose to a girl, but there are always more, so to that end, here are some more ways to propose to a girl.
Important note – If you get incredibly nervous when speaking in public, remember that even the most confident men are nervous when proposing, so factor that into how nervous you’re likely to feel into a situation, even without a proposal involved.
For example, if you would be knocking at the knees and stuttering just standing up on stage in front of a large group of people, maybe that would not be the perfect setting for you to propose. You do not want to experience the disaster of forgetting her name or what you were going to say. Don’t laugh; it’s happened before.
I have said this before, in other posts, but it bears repeating; try not to make your proposal to dependent on factors beyond your control. Proposing is a situation where you want everything to go as planned, so the fewer variables you have that can make things go sideways, the better off you are.
A Live Proposal
You’ll have to arrange this one before hand. If she loves live music, take her to a local club and get a table up front, close to the band or singer. If you can do this when one of her favorite acts is there, so much the better. Go to both the club and tour managers and see if you can arrange to have the act get you up on stage. Once there, you can read your proposal into the mic in front of the whole crowd. Obviously, if she says no or she’ll have to think about it, you’ll be going down in flames with hundreds of people looking on, but nothing ventured, nothing gained.
The Intimate Evening for Two Proposal
Some women like the normal, nice restaurant, Dom, and a ring proposal, but some would prefer theirs be a bit more intimate. If that describes your girlfriend, here is one for you. Take a trip to a mountain or a beach resort, the kind where you can rent a luxury cabana or nice suite with a large fireplace and a really comfortable couch or rug. Sit out on the deck or beach and enjoy a romantic sunset together, maybe with a really good glass of wine. After sunset, it’s time for dinner.
Order in a very a nice dinner from the dining room, and have the staff bring it up and present it, complete with candles and linen and silver table service. Depending on the resort, you may have to make special arrangements with them to make this happen. Another alternative, if the suite has a kitchen is to prepare a nice dinner yourself. Obviously for some of the less culinary gifted in the crowd, that may not be the best choice.
After dinner, retire to the adjacent room to watch a favorite movie, preferably one that has a special significance for the two of you. After the movie, get down on one knee in front of her, pull out the ring, and propose to her.
The Christmas Proposal
If yours in one of the many families where much of the family is together for Christmas, try this proposal. Put her ring in one of the Christmas presents. When she opens it, get down on one knee in front of the entire family and propose to her.
The Puzzle Proposal
Obviously your girlfriend has to love solving puzzles, and you’ll have to do this when she has the free time to participate in it. You can make it take half an hour, or most of the day. It is a variation on a scavenger hunt. Leave her a not with a clue directing her to the spot where she can find the next clue.
You can use locations that have significance to the two of you. Another variation is to have the locations all be related to one of her favorite activities, and still another is to have the clues lead her to some really beautiful places. Have the solution to the last puzzle lead her to a restaurant, where you’ll be waiting for her at the table. After dinner you can have the ring delivered on a platter with desert. Then you can get down and propose to her. There are endless variations of this proposal, from where you end up to how the clues relate to the two of you and your marriage.
There are so many ways to propose to a girl. Find one that works for the two of you. Remember that many women have not been satisfied with their proposals, even if they truly loved their men and would have gladly married them no matter how they asked. The point is that you want to make your proposal the very special even that your girl deserves.
If you have a great proposal story you’d like to share, please leave it in a comment.
